In fact it's happened many times.
Every time I turn on the TV and she's there it happens, even if I turn it off or change the channel the damage has already been done. It's like a wrecking ball, inflicting incremental damage to my psyche.
When I report it, no one believes me or even worse yet, they ask me, "What were you watching?"...as if to say that by tuning into the video music awards show, I was asking for it. I was just looking for some good old fashioned music, I didn't consent to a hoedown throw down, and there was no warning it was coming either.
Then it's on to the victim shaming, like I'm the one who is the problem and she is just an ordinary girl setting a good example for youth.
