Go Ahead and Fart!
By far, the most attractive woman is the independent one.
Delving deep into our caveman roots we are hard wired, I think, to seek a woman who is able to take care of herself and her household without help...so if the man does not return from the hunt someday he knows that his family will be secure.
That very same independence can be very intimidating, though, for some fellows if they are not prepared to embrace that she had a life, likes and friends before he showed up.
To "Man-Up", as they say, requires listening, getting to know her and allowing her to maintain her own space, you can't push a rope and life throws enough REAL drama at you that there is no point in manufacturing any more...F/B can be a real tool for drama creation too...again my advice is to get to know her if you want, maybe befriend her, but LEARN her story, there are so many reasons she may be single...she may not even be...lol...check my blog for a true story called "Press 'Stalk" if you like this".
...just the truth as I see it...so I'll title this essay "Go Ahead and Fart...we like people for their qualities but love them for their defects."